1 Corinthians 6:1
7 The very fact that you have lawsuits among you means you have been completely defeated already. Why not rather be wronged? Why not rather be cheated? 8 Instead, you yourselves cheat and do wrong, and you do this to your brothers and sisters.
Verse 7(B) – Why not rather be wronged? Why not rather be cheated.
While I did not always subscribe to this way of thinking, over the years, I have learned that there is certainly value in doing God’s Word. Esteeming others higher than oneself makes for better relationships, churches, a better country and a better world. Jesus said, ”If they slap you, give them the other cheek.” Jesus said, “Humble yourself, and you will be exalted.” In todays’ world, it seems that arrogance often prompts the need for extreme defense. Contrarily the Christian appreciates Jesus, our example, who defended the truth instead of defending Himself, even as He carried His Cross and walked to His death.
I believe Paul was confirming that it is better to seemingly lose or be cheated than to sin and have offenses with our Christian brothers and sisters. When arrogance is present, divisions are too commonplace because when arrogance is present, man inherently becomes too easily offended.
How does this change my life?
I want to focus on what is important, God, His Kingdom, those He has placed in my life, and the work He has for me to do. I want to give those things everything I have. I have no interest in battling others who have disdain towards or against me. I am sincerely willing to say, “I am sorry”, and attempt to make restitution if applicably possible. If I have offended anyone, please forgive me. As I age, I notice that sometimes, their disdain does not subside even when I go out of my way to please them.
Prayer
Father,
Thank you for sharing your goodness with your children. Forgive us when we take our eyes off you and place them on ourselves, other people, things and more. Help us to be so close to you so that revenge, conflict, competition, greed and evil desires don’t sinfully influence our hearts, minds and relationships. May the value of people be higher on the totem poles of our lives.
Lord, Thank you that your ways are higher than our ways. Thank you that vengeance is yours. Thank you that the victory is yours, and that you granted it to us, your children, through Jesus Christ.
In Jesus Name. Amen.